Welcome to my blog.

I hope you enjoy reading my travels along the road to hot sex.
Feel free to leave any hints or tips you might have on how you spiced up your marriage, we need all the help we can get.
See ya.....

Tuesday, 17 July 2012

HOT DIRTY TEXT, have I got your attention?

Texting, usually its used to send a message to a love one that you will be late or just a note to a friend to see how they are and that your thinking of them, but there is a whole different world out there when it comes to sending a text to our loved ones.

Sexting as some call it was something I wanted to try for a while now, but trying to think of things to write became a bit of a problem, as I don't have a natural ability to talk porn, but with a little research and help from the web I managed to get into the swing of it.  Once I got started it became easier more natural,  you just have let your imagination go wild and let your fingers do the work. I must say that having watched porn in the past did help a little.

For those of you that can't be bothered or can't see the point in sexting, give it a go and see what happens, you never know there might be fireworks.

For those of you that want to give it a go but don't know where to start, here is a link to Dirty Talk 101.
The following examples are from Dirty Talk 101, go on give it a go.

The key with sending the hottest dirty text messages is the buildup. Just sending a quick, hot message isn’t quite enough to do the trick. You need to start out with praise, compliments, and naughty thoughts, and then build to something more from there.
Here are a few dirty text message examples to get things started:
You make me horny every time I see you
I want you so bad
I can’t stop thinking about what I want to do to you
I’m so hard/wet right now
Do you have any idea what you do to me?
I want to rip your clothes off
I wonder what you taste like
Want to feel me inside you?
Your kiss tastes like the sex we had last night
More Hot Dirty Text Message Examples — Dirty Talk 101

Did texting my husband dirty messages work?   OH HELL YEAH!
We were both ready for action by the time he got home from work.
I give sexting a 8/10 well worth the effort and hard to stop once you get started.

Sunday, 1 July 2012

I'm back!


O.k I know it's been ages since I wrote my first blog post, but I have a good reason for slacking off not posting before now.
My house has had the flu, when I say house I mean everybody living in our house.  It spread like wild fire, no amount of hospital strength disinfectant was going to put that bad boy virus down.
Anyway now you know.

Now for the fun stuff, my list!  Boy was I overwhelmed at the amount of blogs and articles on sex.  There are some amazing bloggers out there (to call them bloggers doesn't feel right because they are more like journalists if you ask me ) I was truly gob smacked.  Now I have no excuse any more with all the information out there.  I will link up to some of the amazing blogs as I continue this journey.

Phone sex
Sex slave
Dress up
Make a porno
Weekends away
Different sex positions
Sex in places other than the bedroom

The list above is in no order and is a work in progress, I hope to keep adding to the list as I learn from the wonderful blogs out there, it's like the movie Educating Rita but with lots of hot sex.

Monday, 11 June 2012


I have put off writing on this blog for weeks, why?  I don't really know, maybe it has something to do with the fact that I don't really feel 100% comfortable with writing and writing about sex.

I'm a virgin blogger, not sure how to start this blog and the fact that I know nothing about blogger and how to use it doesn't help.

What I do know is that "I WANT AMAZING MIND BLOWING SEX!!!!!" 

I have been married for 14years to a wonderful man that I'm madly in love with, I find him super sexy and extremely handsome.

So what's the problem?  Our sex life is boring, we have the same routine every time we have sex.
We always start with mutual masturbation then we get on to oral sex and then sexual intercourse and that's it.   Am I to harsh?

My goal is to work my way through a list, a list that will add a spark explosion to our sex lives.
I know that this list is going to have things on it that I'm not comfortable with doing but I'm going to push myself through the discomfort and grin and bear it because you never know I might just like it after all.

Now to do some research and take notes.
See Ya